Following a breakup, people are often desperate for an answer to try and get their ex-boyfriend or girlfriend back.
Your mind will be open to many solutions, no matter how far-fetched they seem.
At some point, you may come across the law of attraction. Many of you will be familiar with it, and some of you will have never heard of it.
But you will no doubt start to think about the possibility of using the law of attraction to get your ex back.
Believe it or not, but there are many people out there who have used the law of attraction to get back with an ex.
In fact, there is a whole website dedicated to it, check it out here http://lawofattractionexback.com
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Also check out this video, for a discussion on what is possible when you try and manifest an ex, and where it can take you.
1. Using Meditation:
Have you ever meditated before? Many people have the wrong perception about meditation.
Don’t be fooled, though, meditation is a powerful tool, that will allow you to calm the thoughts and emotions in your mind.
By meditating regularly, you can develop a space of awareness in your mind, and not allow yourself to influenced by overwhelming emotions about your break up.
After a short period of meditating, you will be able to work with those limiting and fearful thoughts, without fearing them.
This allows them to dissolve and then allows your reality to start reflecting your desire back to you.
2. Taking The Right Action:
Even though you are attempting to use the power of manifestation and the universe, you still need to take an active involvement.
You can’t just sit back, and expect your reality to change overnight.
Conscious living is about a balance between the spiritual and the physical; the two go hand in hand.
Advice on how to get your ex back will be popped into your reality.
You need to act on this advice. You need to have the courage to stick to your desire, and not to compromise.
So if the advice says to give your ex space for a while, then you need to give your ex space for a while.
If the next step is work on yourself, and your lifestyle, then you need to do that.
Manifesting is a very ordinary process!
Events will be orchestrated into your reality; that will allow for a seamless and effortless manifestation.
But only if you play your part, and do not resist the process.
There is a saying that goes …
Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water, after enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.
While you may be a very powerful creator, and be able to create an amazing life for yourself. Life is still very ordinary. You still need to take the action required to achieve that reality.
You are a spiritual being, here having a physical experience after all.
3. Keep An Open Mind:
A contracted and closed mind, does not allow for solutions and intelligence to flow through you.
Also, as your beliefs and outlook on life change, you will find your desires changing.
So don’t be afraid or surprised, that after going through this process, you find that you no longer need or want your ex back.
You may find that your desires have changed, and want to move in a new direction.
This can be very scary to the mind at first. As your old reality, and the old beliefs that you were accustomed to disappear, the unknown can seem a little overwhelming.
So yes you can use the law of attraction to manifest your ex back, but don’t be afraid of what you actually accomplish.
3 Reasons Why Guys Pull Away
Have you ever noticed that when things start to get serious, guys end up pulling away? If this has ever happened to you, it has likely left you extremely confused. The truth is, understanding the male mind is a complex thing. A majority of it is run by ego. Below, we will be going over some of the main reasons why a lot of guys pull away when they feel as though things are getting too serious.
1. He Doesn’t Want To Commit.
One of the primary reasons a lot of guys end up pulling away from a relationship that is starting to get serious is because the guy simply doesn’t want to commit. A lot of guys are willing to enter a relationship but are unwilling to go any further simply because they do not necessarily want to commit to it. Taking the next step can involve a lot of commitment, and some guys simply aren’t ready or willing to make that kind of commitment regardless of who it is with. Thus, this reason typically has nothing to do with the woman the man is unwilling to commit with.
2. He Is No Longer Attracted To You.
Another common reason on why guys pull away when things start to get more serious is because he is no longer attracted to you. Because attraction is not necessarily a constant thing, a man can be attracted to you one day and the next day seemingly is not attracted to you. This is something that happens a lot to couples that have been together for a long time. If a man is not attracted to you any longer and they feel things are getting too serious, they are likely to jump ship. Whereas, if the guy is not as attracted to you as he used to be, but he still enjoys your company and wants to make a relationship work, he will stay.
3. Gave In Too Fast and Easy.
Believe it or not, but a lot of guys actually pursue a woman because they view them as hard to get or unattainable. Once this ‘thrill of the chase’ is over, a man is likely to go back to feeling as they would if the thrill was never there, to begin with. In this case, the guy is likely not ready nor willing to commit and was likely only in the relationship because it was brand new, fun, and exciting.
There are plenty of different reasons as to why a man would begin to pull away from a woman. A lot of the reasons have nothing to do with the woman that the man is pulling away from and some of them do. Some guys might even think things are casual and the woman might get the wrong idea or interpret the signals incorrectly. With that being said, relationships are hard work, and it takes two to commit to one. Therefore, if you find the man starting to pull away, just move on from him.